When people don't see a future in a relationship, don't have plans for the future, don't talk about it, the relationship loses its meaning,

by the well known romanian author Adrian Dumitru everything becomes meaningless, people don't see the point in doing anything in a relationship because tomorrow doesn't exist

We all have plans.

Consciously or unconsciously we think of all sorts of scenarios for the future.

But … no matter how paradoxically it might sound … today i trend to believe that we trend to focus a lot on the future because the present moment it is not what we really expect to be.

We … somehow …. many, many times we can change the dynamic of all … living into the soul with this … illusory belief.

So … i read this quote … written by a beautiful lady ….

annoyed that her lover did not think at the future with her … and believe it or not …. I trend to say that they are actually very happy into the present moment … but she is too blind and can’t see it.

She … keeps repeating to him … about future … but he totally ignores her.

The present moment it is much too nice.

But maybe this is the difference between man and woman.

Most probably … man chase for the beautiful vibes into the now …. and the woman … even if all is perfect ..: is too concern for what is going to be next.

… into the future.

And … we can’t synchronise.

Man is saying … “It is all amazing. I adore to be into your company.”

The woman is saying … “Let’s talk about future … please.

Our future.

I want to know … your plans.”

And … no matter how beautiful it might be today … not being able to synchronise the thoughts … it all starts to fade.

Little by little …. day by day.

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